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Monday, December 15, 2008

How to Detect Lies..!!!

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Become a Lie Detector - How to see a fake smile

Introduction to Detecting Lies:

The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police, and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.

Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.


Signs of Deception:

Body Language of Lies:

• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.

Emotional Gestures & Contradiction:

• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.
• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expression s and words.

Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.


• Gestures/expression s don't match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying "I love you."
• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.

Interactions and Reactions:

• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.

Verbal Context and Content:

• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, "Did you eat the last cookie?" The liar answers, "No, I did not eat the last cookie."
•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: " I didn't do it" instead of "I did not do it"
• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.
• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.
• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized

Other signs of a lie:

• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.
• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:

Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons

Monday, December 8, 2008

The Munchkins and Me...!!

There are many parents who would never imagine that their child doesn't have the nerve to talk with them. When I first created my school programs more than twenty years ago, I was amazed at how many thousands of children told me they felt this way and hadn't let their parents know.

If your child had the chance to write his or her feelings anonymously about how you relate to each other, what do you think he or she would express? How close do you think your child feels to you? How close do you feel to your child?

Maybe you've never had the closeness with your own parent that you'd like to have with your child. Maybe you find it difficult to talk about your own feelings. Maybe it's even hard for you to say, "I love you". Over the years I have met so many parents and children who told me they couldn't.

Even with the best parent/child relationships, everything is always changing. Nothing can be taken for granted. Figure that anything you share in a positive, loving manner will have a ripple effect. Being close with your child can be a life-changing, fulfilling, enriching lifetime endeavor. I can't think of a more important role as a parent.

I don't know your child. (Maybe you feel like you don't know your child, either!) However, I believe it's possible for parents to get closer to their children. The ability to work at developing a closer relationship with our children is a process that parents and children can work at and grow with over time.

No matter how difficult things might seem, keep in mind that most children wish they could be closer with their parents. Even when things go horribly wrong, those can be the most important growth experiences. So don't be too hard on yourself. Go slowly, and take things one step at a time. Think of this process as an adventure. Anything you do to try to improve your relationship with your child is wonderful. Your efforts to communicate more openly and become closer can have lifetime benefits for your child, as well as for yourself.

Whether we have one child or ten, we can only attempt to embrace, love, and appreciate each child to the best of our ability. The interaction with each child is going to be different. And certainly, each of our children will have his or her own perception of who we are and how we respond to them. There are many issues related to child and parents which need to be addressed.These issues are beautifully given in this The Munchkins and Me site.

An Unusual Commet..!!

I was doing my usual blog update process then i came across 2 comments unmoderated in my blog. Mostly i don't care about comments but this comment was unusual and was different from all other comments. So i was forced to read its details. So i thought of walking to this blog The Cricket Ahead . Its has good numbers of updates and gadgets to update information about cricket and also few reviews about PAK's fate in cricket. i liked the posts and gadgets and i wish him good luck about his blog.. and also i ask everyone of you who are reading this post to visit this blog and encourage the blogger...!
Here is a snap of comments from this blogger...

Sunday, November 30, 2008

A Short Story...! Lovely...!!!

While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car.
In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father....
With painful eyes he asked 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions..... . sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches, child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .

Anger and Love have no limits; choose the later to have a beautiful & lovely life....

Things are to be used and people are to be loved,

But the problem in today's world is that,

People are used and things are loved.......

Mumbai Terror...!!! Who's Responsible...??? WallPapers...!!!


Facts on Pakistani Terrorism Against Kashmir...!!

Facts on Pakistani Terrorism Against Kashmir



Number of Terrorist Camps in Pakistan: 37


Number of Terrorist Camps in Pakistan-occupied Kashmir: 49


Number of Pakistani-run Terrorist Camps in Afghanistan: 22


Total Number of Hardcore Terrorists Operating in Jammu and Kashmir: 2300


Total Number of Foreign Mercenaries Operating in Jammu and Kashmir: 900


Number of Pakistani terrorists killed by Indian security forces: 291


Number of Pakistani terrorists in Indian jails: 125


Number of Indian civilians killed by Pakistani terrorists: over 29,000


Number of firearms recovered from Pakistan-trained terrorists in India: 47,000


Amount of explosives recovered from Pakistan-trained terrorists in India: 60 tons (30,000 kg)


Number of explosions carried out by Pakistan-trained terrorists in India: 4,730


Nationalities of Foreign Mercenaries Operating in Jammu and Kashmir:


Pakistan, Pakistan-occupied Kashmir, Afghanistan, Egypt, Sudan, Yemen, Bahrain, Bangladesh, Iran, Iraq


Deadliest Pakistani Terrorist Groups Active in Jammu and Kashmir:


Harkat-ul-Ansar (recently renamed Harkat-ul-Mujaheedin) Headquarters: Muzaffarabad (Pakistan-Occupied Kashmir) Lashkar-e-Toiba Headquarters: Muridke (Pakistan) Hizbul Mujahideen


Peak time of annual infiltration of terrorists into India:

Summer months, when the snows have melted, under cover of Pakistani Army firing


Number of people in Jammu and Kashmir killed in violence waged by Pakistan-supported terrorists over the last decade: over 20,000.


Ethnic Cleansing in Kashmir: Nearly 300,000 Kashmiri Pandits (original Hindu inhabitants of Kashmir valley) driven out of their ancestral homeland by Pakistan-supported terrorists.


Pakistan's response to charges of terrorism support: "It only provides diplomatic and moral support to the terrorists". To see through this outright lie, read about the "credible reports of official Pakistani support to Kashmiri terrorist groups..." in the US State Department 1997 report on global terrorism.


The US Tomahawk missiles killed Pakistani terrorists belonging to Harkat-ul-Ansar in the Khost camps in Afghanistan this year. These terrorists were training to fight in Kashmir.


The Harkat-ul-Ansar and the Lashkar-e-Toiba threatened US citizens recently in open news conferences in major cities in Pakistan (Kashmir Chronicle, Vol. 1, No. 6).


The Pakistani government makes no attempt to shut down any of these groups.


Most recent recruits to Pakistani terrorist camps: Kashmiri Muslim children as young as 12 years old, coerced into a dead-end career by Pakistani terrorist groups.


Why is the Pakistani economy in shambles? 70% of its budget goes to the military plus its debt payments, much of the military spending being on sustaining the Kashmiri terror


References:


Web Data Published by Indian Army

US State Department Patterns of Global Terrorism, 1997

News Sources

Atlas of the World

(www.kashmir-information.com)

Saturday, November 29, 2008

True Meaning of LOVE - A Touching Story

The True Meaning of LOVE - A Touching Story

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness. . I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

"Why?" he asked, shocked. "I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!" I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can't even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:" What can I do to change your mind?" Somebody said it right, it's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : "Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?" He said :" I will give you your answer tomorrow.... " My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes....

My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further.." This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. "When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand... and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face...

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. " My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting. ... and as I continue on reading...

"Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk...

I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread..... Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone...

That's life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... and that's our life... Love, not words win arguments...

The OIC ..!!!

Here What OIC stands for.....







Thursday, November 27, 2008

Today's Just For Laugh...!!! ** J L F ** Part -2

The woman applying for a job in a Florida lemon grove seemed way too qualified for the job.

Foreman: "Look Miss, have you any actual experience in picking lemons?"

Woman: "Well, as a matter if fact, yes! I've been divorced three times."

* * *

There were three guys talking in the pub. Two of them are talking about the amount of control they have over their wives, while the third remains quiet.

After a while one of the first two turns to the third and says,

"Well, what about you, what sort of control do you have over your wife?"

The third fellow says "I'll tell you. Just the other night my wife came to me on her hands and knees."

The first two guys were amazed. "What happened then?" they asked. "She said, 'get out from under the bed and fight like a man'."

* * *

Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends.You order what you want, then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that.

Today's Just For Laugh...!!! ** J L F **

One day, two guys decide to take a drive to a local grocery store to get some lunch. On the way to the store they ran into an intersection with a stoplight. The light showed red. The man driving went right through the red light. The passenger looked at the driver and screamed, "What the heck are you doing? You're going to get us killed!" Then the driver responded, "Don't worry, my mother allways drives like this."

So later on, the two guys came to another stoplight and that too was red. The driver sped right through the light. Again the passenger looked at the driver and said, "I thought I told you, you're gonna get us killed! Would you please stop this nonsense!" The driver looked at the passenger and responded, "All right! I get it but I told you My mother drives like this all the time!"

Again, the two guys ran into another light. This time in was green. The Driver slammed on his breaks and stopped the car totally. "What the hell are you doing?" The passenger screamed. "This is the third time you almost got us killed. Why did you stop at a green light?" "Well, my mother might be coming the other way!" the driver said.

* * *

A man was speeding down the highway, feeling secure in a gaggle of cars all traveling at the same speed. However, as they passed a speed trap, he got nailed with an infrared speed detector and was pulled over.

The officer handed him the citation, received his signature and was about to walk away when the man asked "Officer, I know I was speeding, but I don't think it's fair - there were plenty of other cars around me who were going just as fast, so why did I get the ticket?"

"Ever go fishing?" the policeman suddenly asked the man.

"Ummm, yeah..." the startled man replied.

The officer grinned and added "Ever catch all the fish?"

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

How to Earn Extra Money...!!!

If you have a blog and if you need to earn money online from blog its your right page, here are some of the website which offers you to earn money by writing reviews for advertisers. If you have 90 days old blog with reasonable traffic and alexa rank or page rank and a PayPal account ?

  • Sponsored Reviews is first site which i get approved for my blog. Its easy for you to get approval if you have a good traffic and better alexa rank. Your blog must be 90 days old and should have 10 non sponsored posts with minimum of 200 words for each post.
  • Paying Post is advertising website, if you already joined in ppp, its easy for you to use this. This website offers $5 to $50 post.
  • I earned few hundred dollar through Blogitive and once you get approved you will get sponsors for $5 and you should write reviews in atleast 200 words about advertisers. Conditions for approval same as Sponsored Reviews.
  • Payperpost is Top Site which you can earn more money from your blog. They approve depending on your blog’s ranking and backlinks of your blogs. If you have a Good Page Rank blogs even you can earn $100 per day through PPP.
  • Paid Post is same as like payperpost and paying post.
  • Smorty is a place where you can earn money by writing reviews about advertiser as well as through digxa widgets which has product information for online shopping you can paste the code in your blogs and earn money for each product purchased by your visitors.
  • Blogsvertise is another place to earn money for bloggers once you get approved you can grab oppourtuities for you blogs here, maximum you can get oppourtunities for $2 to $18 per review.
  • Before applying for reviewme you should have good ranking blog with good traffic because reviewme will approve or decline when your applying. So Keep in mind and apply for reviewme. And you can earn more money from review me advertisers.
  • Just few months before BuyBlogReviews is launched and its like Sponsored Review you should bid for advertiser and get approved for writing a reviews.
  • Blogging ads where they accept only page rank blogs in their network. Here you can earn $5 to $50 per post if you have good page rank domains.
  • Bloggers Review is like sponsored review program where you can find a oppourtunity, start writing reviews and get paid through paypal.
  • Bloggertizer accepts blog only which have page rank 3 and above. once you signup your blog will be displayed in their website and advertiser will be contacting you to display ads or to write reviews.
  • Snapbomb gives you reviews depending on your blog traffic and pagerank. If you have good traffic and pagerank you can earn more from this website.
  • Loudlaunch is a top advertising website where you can get more than $50 per post. You will get approved only if you have a well content blog and its popularized.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Why Do Children Play with Toys..!!

One of the most important things a child do is play. Play is the essential joy of childhood and is also the way children learn about themselves, their environment and the people around them. As they play, children learn to solve problems, get along with other people and control their bodies as they enrich their creativity and develop leadership skills. When children play with a broad variety of toys, the experiences help them to develop to their fullest potential.

Children bring boundless energy and imagination to their play with toys and constantly developing new and creative ways to play. Because there are so many different kinds of toys and novel way to play with them, children learn that the world is a diverse place with unlimited possibilities. Toys thus have an exciting role in helping children to become mature, confident and imaginative adults.

Children around the world love playing with toys. Toys are great gifts for children and its worth shopping online to find the best prices for the most popular toys. If you have a gift ideas or idea of giving toys to the children which will help then develop their mental and creative ability. So giving creative toys would be a great idea to gifts toys to Children. If You cannot afford costly toys , give cheap toys to them.

The Electronic toys, games and gifts are ideal for older children and youngsters. They provide entertainment while fulfilling an educational role. Toys enhance cognitive behavior and stimulate creativity. They aid in the development of physical and mental skills which are necessary in later life. Certain toys, such as Barbie dolls and toy soldiers, are often perceived as being more acceptable for one gender than the other. It has been noted by researchers that, "Children as young as 18 months display sex-stereotyped toy choices".

Gifts for older children might be the latest Nintendo wii console with fun games such as this years most popular game "wii fit" - fun for all the family . Also really popular is "Mario Kart + Wii Wheel"

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Jackson embraces Islam; changes name


Pop singer Michael Jackson has converted to Islam and changed his name to Mikaeel.

The 50-year-old star, pledged his allegiance to the Koran in a ceremony at a friend’s mansion in Los Angeles, the Sun reported.

Jackson sat on the floor wearing a tiny hat after an Imam was summoned to officiate—days before the singer is due to appear at London’s High Court where he is being sued by an Arab Sheik, the paper said.

The star decided to adopt the new religion while he was recording a song at the home of his friend where a Jehovah’s witness was brought up to help him through the ceremony.

Apparently the star of hits like the Way You Make Me Feel-was convinced by his producer and songwriter friends David Wharnsby and Phillip Bubal.

“They began talking to him about their beliefs, and how they thought they had become better people after they converted. Michael soon began warming to the idea.

“An Imam was summoned from the mosque and Michael went through the shahada, which is the Muslim declaration of belief,” the source revealed. Mikaeel is the name of one of Allah’s angels.”Jacko rejected an alternative name, Mustafa meaning “the chosen one”, the source added.

Courtesy : The Financial Express

Friday, November 21, 2008

List of Muslim scientists

Courtesy : www.wikipedia.com


Astronomers and Astrophysicists
Further information: Islamic astronomy

Chemists and Alchemists

Further information: Alchemy (Islam)

Economists and Social Scientists

Further information: Islamic sociology, Early Muslim sociology, and Islamic economics in the world
See also: List of Muslim historians and Historiography of early Islam

Geographers and Earth Scientists

Further information: Muslim Agricultural Revolution

Mathematicians

Further information: Islamic mathematics: Biographies

Neuroscientists and Psychologists

Further information: Islamic psychological thought
  • Averroes, pioneer of Parkinson's disease

  • Ibn Tufail, pioneer of tabula rasa and nature versus nurture
  • Teepu Siddique, neurologist and pioneer in neurogenetics and ALS.

Physicians and Surgeons

Main article: Muslim doctors
Further information: Islamic medicine

Physicists

Further information: Islamic physics

Political Scientists

Other scientists and inventors

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